Dustin and I have been e-mailing a lot recently, as I have many questions for him. He has been very helpful and encouraging.
Many people have asked me where I will be staying and what I will be eating. Dustin has told me I will be staying in a one bedroom apartment on campus that is used for visiting instructors and other guests. He said the school would provide food in the apartment kitchen, but he didn't say what kind of food! Dustin also said that faculty families would invite me to eat with them on occasion.
The JMTUC campus is 25 acres surrounded by a security wall. Although I won't be housed very near the Ellingtons, it shouldn't be a problem seeing them regularly.
Here is the latest update from the Ellingtons. They had a harrowing experience with their son, Clayton. Give thanks to God that he is OK.
May 18, 2013
Dear friends,
We have a story of thanksgiving to share with you…mostly a
story of deep thanksgiving, though with lessons learned, as well.
In early April our family was in the Cape Town area to attend
a gathering of Presbyterian Church (USA) mission co-workers who minister in
sub-Saharan Africa. Expecting it to be a busy week, we arrived a couple of days
early to explore and enjoy the area a bit, and on the day the conference was to
begin, we really crammed it in: hiked up some mountains behind the town, with
Clayton and a couple friends going up one of the taller, steeper ones; pestered
the kayak rental place on the lagoon until they opened up and rented us some
boats; and went to the beach…a special treat for us, since Zambia is a
land-locked country.
It was the first sunny day we’d had, and the boys and I
(Sherri) had been itching to swim. After flirting with the cold water awhile,
never going in beyond his waist, Clayton decided he needed a goal. With my
encouragement, he braved the cold water to swim out parallel to some rocks a
moderate distance out.
At first everything looked fine. My first clue that
something was wrong was when a local mom approached me and asked if we were
familiar with this beach. She told me there was a strong rip current, and that
if my son looked back again I should motion him to swim parallel along the shore
to get out of it. Meanwhile, Clayton swam ahead, continuing in the rip current,
not realizing he was in it.
When Clayton reached his “goal” distance and didn’t quickly
return, we knew something was, indeed, wrong. Dustin, who had run down to the
beach, leaving his fish & chips lunch, camera, etc. on a restaurant table,
immediately called an emergency number. (We hadn’t realized it, but there were
no lifeguards this day; their seasonal contract had just ended.) South African
strangers gathered on shore, praying, calling their prayer chains in other
towns, pointing out glimpses of Clayton’s head whenever a swell lifted him
higher than the waves in the foreground. Other than prayer, we felt helpless.
One woman on shore prayed with me that if Clayton got tired, God would send
angels to lift him up. This was a good prayer, especially since Clayton had
climbed the mountain earlier that morning and had kayaked for an hour and a
half, paddling hard in a family race at the end. Even though Clayton is strong
and athletic, I didn’t know how cold he might be getting, or how well he was
keeping his head vs. struggling directly against the forceful
current.
When we first realized it was taking the emergency help
awhile to arrive, I told Dustin that if he could get me two life jackets from
the kayak rental place, I would swim them out and give Clayton one, to help keep
him afloat if he was tiring. I thought it was a great idea, but didn’t think
Dustin or the bystanders I had also asked had acted on it. Then, suddenly,
Dustin showed up with two life jackets plus a paddle board. I put both life
vests on, lay down on the paddle board, and headed out, trusting the same rip
current would lead me to Clayton. (Dustin sent me because I am a strong
swimmer, have more ocean experience, and was trained as a life guard…25 years
ago…and for pools, not rip currents…)
When I got out to the stronger waves and higher swells, I
became concerned with how I would spot Clayton. I didn’t know how high his head
would still be in the water at this point. I didn’t know whether he would be to
my right or to my left. I feared passing him without seeing him, and then being
unable to fight the current back to him. I lost the paddle board when a large
wave thrashed me.
Finally, I looked to my right, and saw…TWO heads? The first
thought that came to my mind was the woman’s prayer back on shore, that if
Clayton got tired, God would send an angel to lift him up. Indeed, God had sent
a human angel – named Duncan.
Duncan, a Christian man, was not “supposed” to be there that
day. He and his wife had lived in that town, Kleinmond, for 12 years but
recently moved inland with their young family, and had sold their Kleinmond home
that weekend. However, when they got home they realized that they had not
turned over their set of house keys. Ugh…they would have to return to Kleinmond
the next day…which turned out to be the day of Clayton’s rip current situation.
After apologetically giving the keys to the new owners, Duncan and his wife went
along with their kids’ request to go see the ocean one last time. After all, it
was a nice, sunny day. They drove to the beach and parked in the parking lot
over the rocks. Then Duncan saw something not right: a youth far out in the
water. He exchanged his jeans for the shorts of another bystander, and jumped
in. He knew the current would be too strong for him to actually bring the kid
to safety, but chose to jump into the cold water anyhow, to tread water with and
encourage the boy. That is where the second head in the water came
from.
Who knows to what extent, and in what ways, Duncan’s presence
helped keep Clayton alive. We have since learned that Clayton was, indeed,
tiring, and had decided, rather than continuing to swim parallel to shore away
from the rocks, to try to swim toward a rock and grab hold of it, for a rest.
The thought of this makes me cringe more than almost any of the rest of it, as I
know how powerful those swells were. I don’t think that even a robust person,
let alone a tired one, could have held onto one of those sharp rocks when a wave
swelled. The swell would have undone Clayton’s grasp, lifted him up, then
dashed him back down, likely either knocking him out so he could no longer tread
water or giving him a gash that would have drawn blood and attracted sharks.
Our family is deeply indebted to Duncan for risking his own life to tread water
with and encourage Clayton, and to God for orchestrating things just right to
send Duncan to the beach on that day and at that time.
When I finally arrived to Clayton and Duncan, the double life
jackets were so tight on my back that I couldn’t get one off for Clayton, so
Duncan helped with that, too, and with getting it on Clayton. Then the three of
us treaded water and waited for a rescue boat to arrive.
When the rescue vehicle came – it was a jet ski – Clayton
could hardly climb on. Part of this was cold and exhaustion, but he was also
busy using what energy he did have to yell out at the top of his lungs: “THANK
YOU… GOD!!! THANK YOU…GOD!!!” over and over. I guess he did this the whole jet
ski ride to shore; Dustin said he was still yelling it when he arrived on the
beach, and that it even continued to pop out sporadically on the ambulance ride
to the hospital 40 km away.
The resolution to the story is that in the hospital Clayton
was treated for hypothermia with warm IV fluid in his veins and a blowdrier-like
contraption under the blankets. Meanwhile, a stranger who had seen everything
drove me and Christopher to our guest house to get passports, insurance cards,
and a credit card, then drove me the 40 km to join Clayton and Dustin at the
hospital. She waited there for us, bought us yogurt drinks and granola bars,
and drove us all home again….and all this while tending to her own disabled and
autistic child in the car. (She also left us care packages on the doorstep of
our room every afternoon during our conference that week, and still prays for us
even now that we are back in Zambia.)
We are extremely thankful to God for orchestrating things to
save Clayton’s life, despite his being far off shore, for 45 minutes or so, in
very cold water. It could so easily have gone the other way…and had, we
learned, for someone just a month earlier, who died in that same spot. In
addition to the amazing “coincidence” of Duncan being there on a day when he
wasn’t “supposed” to be, there was the fact of the kayak rental place being open
so we could borrow the life jackets. (It was only open because our family had
phoned and asked them to open earlier in the day; they had been closed the
previous two days whenever we had phoned and tried to kayak.) There was the
fact that the rescue jet ski, when it finally arrived, worked – a year earlier,
we learned, a lifeguard had been swimming for fun after work and had drowned
when the jet ski wouldn’t start. And many other things went right as well. We
actually have a whole list called Things That Went Right.
Mostly this is just a note to fill you, our partners, in on
this major experience our family went through last month, so you can celebrate
with us how God orchestrated things to save Clayton. We also want to thank
those of you who pray for us regularly for our family’s safety, among other
things. God once again has answered such prayers.
Finally, we wanted to share this story with you because we
think parts of it illustrate what we as Christians are called to do for others,
and even how we as Western Christians are called to partner with others
globally. When we see people who are struggling in their lives, even drowning,
or when we see the overwhelming problems people face in a certain region of the
world (such as in Africa, or in the Middle East, or even in parts of the United
States itself) sometimes the problems seem too much to face. Like some men told
me on the beach when I asked them to run and get me life jackets: “No one can
go out there. [Other than rescue workers who hadn’t yet arrived.] No one
can.” And yet when I got out there I saw that someone HAD, and the difference
that person made may have been the difference between life and death for my
son. The men on the beach were right in the sense that Duncan wouldn’t have
been able to bring our son in. But treading water alongside Clayton, to
encourage him? That he could do.
Who might God be calling you to tread water with
today?
Thank you for your prayer support and financial support, both
of which enable us to “tread water” with our friends and partners here in Africa
and to be part of an organized effort – Justo Mwale Theological University
College – of training more well-prepared Christian leaders for the church in
Zambia, Malawi, Zimbabwe, Mozambique, and South Africa. If you would like to
give toward our financial support, more information is available below. We also
have some prayer requests (also below). And we will soon be heading to the USA
on “Interpretation Assignment” – sharing with the U.S. church about God’s work
in Zambia and southern Africa. If your church would like to invite us to speak
sometime between August 2013 and July 2014, please be in touch!
Prayer requests:
1. Students – That their
training at Justo Mwale will truly help their love to abound in knowledge and
all depth of insight (Philippians 1:9)
2. Visiting professors –
Dr. Marty Soards, from Louisville Presbyterian Theological Seminary, and Dr.
Phil Gladden, from Wallace Presbyterian Church in North Carolina, will be
teaching intensive courses at Justo Mwale for the last three weeks of June.
Pray for their adjustments to Zambia and their ministries of teaching and
encouraging the students.
3. Limited weeks and days
-- We have less than seven weeks left before we return to the United States for
a whole year, and we need a lot of wisdom to know how to prioritize the little
time we have left, as well as daily strength to make the most of this time.
4. Water issues – Our
campus often has water and electricity issues. The water situation has gotten
quite bad lately. Fortunately, funds have been donated to fix it (by National
Presbyterian Church in D.C.). Pray for wisdom to understand and fix the root
problem(s) in addition to patching up the emergencies.
Financial support:If you are interested in giving
financially to support our ministry in Zambia, gifts (either one-time or
recurring) can be made at:
www.presbyterianmission.org/give/E200478/Thank you for being our partners in
ministry.
Sincerely,
Sherri and Dustin Ellington
Newspaper photo of Duncan treading water with Clayton
Duncan
Clayton with paramedics